Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Becoming one of THOSE moms...

Before I had Henry (ah, how much I took for granted), I would make these really stupid and undeserved judgments on others. Honestly, I still do this and I ask God for help in that area everyday. I was especially harsh when it came to judging moms. I laugh when I remember a conversation I had with Katy, pre-baby - we once witnessed a pregnant woman eating her weight in mashed potatos at a buffet. I said that I would NEVER let myself do that...the baby is only like the size of a acorn! HA! What a hypocrite! Travis can attest to the fact that I WAS that lady at the New Moon Chinese buffet in Chattanooga, on at least 5 different occasions!

Moms who can't take the time to dress their babies. What else could you possibly have to do all day, staying at home?? We all know you just sit on the couch, watch your stories and eat bonbons. HA!! What a hypocrite (except that I don't eat bonbons). Henry has definitely been caught out in public in his pajamas and bed-hair. Who really cares? Obviously not me.

I also did not think that it was ok for parents to give there children those free cookies at Ingles. Pure sugar - they don't need that! HA! What a hypocrite! When Henry and I pulled up at the store today, he said, in his little adorable voice, "TOOKIE". WHAT!? My son can LOOK at the outside of Ingles and know that he is getting a cookie.

When did I become one of those moms?... One of those moms who doesn't care what other people think. One who knows that the value of her son will surely not be measured by the clothes that he wears or how he looks, but by the Godly man that he will become. A mom who labors 24 hours a day and gets no pay. Yes, my son gets a cookie...he also gets broccoli and carrots. And pregnant women can do whatever they want - they are playing host to God's miracle.

Hello! My name is Lindsay and I am one of THOSE moms.

6 comments:

Rachel (in MS) said...

Me too! Metoo, metoo, metoo! Can't wait to meet you in real life - I know we'd be friends! :)

Deidre said...

"one day" I hope to be one of those moms as well. :0) I only aspire to be the best I can. Linds you do such a wonderful job...at least from what I read about your life and being a mom. Sounds to me that your heart and mind are in the right place and THAT is what makes you a GREAT mom!

Sarah said...

oh Lindsay... I absolutely know what you mean!! I was SO judgmental and I repent frequently for it. I had all these parenting philosophies... and pretty much every one of them changed once I actually became a mom. Hello, my name is Sarah and I am one of THOSE moms too!

jerry said...

as I tell Catherine, "The pay is not great, but just look at the fringe benefits!!!" :)

Grandma Scott said...

You go for it mom just wait till your a grandma oh is it nice.

LC said...

Kudos for being one of those moms! You will never regret treasuring the moments!